Your ally in transformation, here to help you step into more love, authenticity, and aliveness — within yourself and in your relationships
My Story
In 2005, I attended a 10-day course where I encountered Latihan, intention dialogue, Reichian de-armoring bodywork, and honest, open sharing — transformational work that blew my heart and my world wide open. After just three days, I felt something I hadn't felt since I was a girl full of love and wonder, growing up in New York, talking to the flowers and singing to the sun, sensing the world was full of magic and possibility: a profound body-felt joy, presence, lightness, and clarity.
Up until that moment, I had a head full of self-help and spiritual concepts, but I felt emotionally stuck, disconnected, and afraid to reveal myself fully. I felt powerless to create the kind of change I wanted within myself and my relationships. What I experienced in the course was a revelation.
A year later, I left my newspaper job, let go of most of my belongings, and moved across the country. I dedicated my life to dissolving my armor, regulating my nervous system, and recovering my natural and joyous expression. For the first time, I was embodying my spirituality and my sexuality, not just believing in one and performing the other.
Over the next two decades, through my own inner struggles and dark nights of the soul, years of training and study, and work with clients, I learned what it actually takes to transform your life and your relationships. Using the same methods I share with my clients today, I've transformed out of social anxiety, addiction, soul loneliness, sexual shame, body hatred, dysfunctional relationship patterns, and creative blocks.
I choose to coach others because I know just how good life can get, and what possibilities open when you show up for yourself like this. I've had the pleasure of witnessing transformation again and again, and it never stops being the best thing I get to witness.
Love and truth will kick your ass in the best way possible. Learning to stand in that love and truth takes real guts. It's not always easy, and that's why I'm here.
If you're ready to do this real, valuable work, let's talk.
My StoryIn 2005, I attended a 10-day course where I encountered Latihan, intention dialogue, Reichian de-armoring bodywork, and honest, open sharing — transformational work that blew my heart and my world wide open. After just three days, I felt something I hadn't felt since I was a girl full of love and wonder, growing up in New York, talking to the flowers and singing to the sun, sensing the world was full of magic and possibility: a profound body-felt joy, presence, lightness, and clarity.
Up until that moment, I had a head full of self-help and spiritual concepts, but I felt emotionally stuck, disconnected, and afraid to reveal myself fully. I felt powerless to create the kind of change I wanted within myself and my relationships. What I experienced in the course was a revelation.
A year later, I left my newspaper job, let go of most of my belongings, and moved across the country. I dedicated my life to dissolving my armor, regulating my nervous system, and recovering my natural and joyous expression. For the first time, I was embodying my spirituality and my sexuality, not just believing in one and performing the other.
Over the next two decades, through my own inner struggles and dark nights of the soul, years of training and study, and work with clients, I learned what it actually takes to transform your life and your relationships. Using the same methods I share with my clients today, I've transformed out of social anxiety, addiction, soul loneliness, sexual shame, body hatred, dysfunctional relationship patterns, and creative blocks.
I choose to offer somatic work and coaching because I know just how good life can get, and what possibilities open when you show up for yourself like this. I've had the pleasure of witnessing transformation again and again, and it never stops being the best thing I get to witness.
Love and truth will kick your ass in the best way possible. Learning to stand in that love and truth takes real guts. It's not always easy, and that's why I'm here.
If you're ready to do this real, valuable work, let's talk.
Why I Work With MenA few honest reasons.
I love men. That's simply true, and it's part of why I do this work.
Over the years, men are largely who I've attracted as clients. This wasn't a strategic decision at the start. It's what actually happened, and I've followed it.
Even though our culture is becoming more emotionally open, many men still carry the message that asking for help, admitting confusion, or being vulnerable is a weakness, or that they should just figure it out on their own. Somatic work gives men a way to reach past all of that into something authentic, underneath the cultural messaging and patterned thinking that they’ve inherited.
I've been offering somatic coaching for men since 2009, and have enjoyed it enormously.
Experience and Areas of Study
TRAININGS & CERTIFICATIONS
De-armoring, Bodyhan, Tantra Kriya Yoga, Latihan, and Transformational Coaching, learned through direct training and coaching with Greg Ehmka, a practitioner in the neo-Reichian lineage
Registered Practitioner, Spiritual Phyto Essencing — embodiment work with essential oils, trained under Dr. Bruce Berkowsky (2010-2018)
Cuddlist® Certified Platonic Therapeutic Touch Practitioner
I also offer platonic touch sessions through Cuddlist, a separate practice from the coaching work on this site.
Sacred Sexuality Educator (2009-2019)
Landmark Education, including Leadership and Communication courses (2017-present)
B.A. in Communications from SUNY New Paltz
OTHER INFLUENCES & AREAS OF STUDY
5Rhythms Movement Practice (2008-present)
Ecstatic Dance (2007-present)
Betty Martin's The Wheel of Consent (influence only, I'm not a trainer or practitioner of this work)
Nervous system and fascia work with Daniel Werner (Institute for Body-Mind-Presence), multiple retreats in Preetz, Germany
Shamanic sexuality training with Kenneth Ray Stubbs (online)
Advaita Nondualism
The research and writings of Miranda Shaw (specifically her book, Passionate Enlightenment: Women in Tantric Buddhism)
The writings and teachings of Daniel Odier
Shamanic ceremonial experiences & plant wisdom traditions
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